当别人做出违反公众预期的行为、打破预先约定的承诺,或者做出不良行为时,你该如何应对?是做沉默的大多数中的一员,还是不顾结果地发泄情绪?本书提供了让别人承担责任的技巧,包括在问责对话之前、之中、之后分别要做什么、怎么做,同时辅以丰富的对话情境和轻松幽默的小故事,帮助读者以最迅速的方式掌握这些技巧。
Hold anyone accountable. Master performance discussions. Get RESULTS. Behind the problems that routinely plague our organizations and families, you’ll find individuals who are either unwilling or unable to deal with broken promises. Colleagues break a rule, coworkers miss a deadline, friends fail to live up to commitments (or just plain behave badly), and nobody says a word. Nobody holds anyone accountable. With repeated infractions, individuals become increasingly upset until they finally do speak their minds, but they do so poorly–often creating whole new sets of problems.
Research proves that mishandled disappointments aren’t just morale killers, they’re institution killers–diminishing organizational performance by 20 to 50 percent and accounting for up to 90 percent of all divorces.
Drawing from 10,000 hours of observations, Crucial Accountability teaches you how to deal with common infractions such as:
An employee speaks to you in an insulting tone that crosses the line between sarcasm and insubordination. Now what?